Tag: Influence

  • Research has highlighted a link between social media influencers and increased negative emotional health.

    They found that “an increase in the number of followers was associated with increased negative emotions.”

    Why?

    It’s because true influence is like farming.

    Farming is best done slowly.

    Growing mass amounts of crops in a short time produces low-quality and often dangerous results.

    The reason is because farming (like influence) begins and ends with soil.

    You have to be healthy soil before you can produce healthy fruit.

    In farming, nutrient-rich topsoil is a product of ground that has been cultivated by the elements of nature through decomposition and soil regeneration for generations, sometimes for thousands of years. 

    In order to keep the ground from becoming infertile, farmers have to rotate their crops and periodically allow the ground to go unplanted for an extended period of time – typically one to five years to be exact.

    If the farmer decides to take a short-term approach by planting in the soil repeatedly every season without allowing it to regenerate, the soil loses its nutrients, becomes infertile, and becomes a more inviting environment for pests.

    This leads to the use of chemical fertilizers and pesticides, which, as we’re learning more and more, can cause long-term health issues in those who consume produce from these types of farms.

    Do you see the correlation to the human heart?

    In the same way fast farming produces bad results, striving to gain influence with large amounts of people in a short time produces low-quality impact and often dangerous results for both the “influencer” and the ones being influenced.

    Real change takes time. There are no shortcuts.

    And building large followings on digital platforms is a dangerous path for the human soul if the soil of the heart isn’t tended to properly.

    Despite what the personal growth culture portrays, it’s the quite, slow, simple path that leads to the most abundant fruit.

  • Driven people with character are dangerous.

    They are the ones who create a better world.

    But both are key – drive and character.

    One without the other is like separating sodium from chlorine in sodium chloride, which is also known as salt.

    These two become salt only when they’re together.

    When separated, both sodium and chlorine are dangerous and volatile.

    If the formula for salt is sodium (Na) + chlorine (Cl), then the formula for building driven people of character – the “salt” of the earth, is this:

    Urgency (to solve an important problem) + Patience (the willingness to work and wait for progress) = Driven People of Character (Salt of the Earth).

    I call it “patient urgency”.

    You must have both urgency and patience.

    Jesus told his followers, “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot.” (Matthew 5:13)

    Just like sodium and chlorine are harmful on their own, so too are urgency and patience.

    Urgency without patience kills character.

    Patience without urgency kills drive.

    When they come together, though, you get a rare mixture that both preserves and improves everything it touches.